Living In Sweet Dreams

Animal Sounds

2010-01-15T16:00:00.000+08:00

The Clean Up

2010-01-12T10:46:00.001+08:00

Jack Jack Dancing

2010-01-10T15:10:00.001+08:00

The Golden Child

2009-10-14T20:07:00.003+08:00

... who drinks liquid gold.

Salvaging

2009-10-09T13:54:00.015+08:00

During the storm Ondoy, as you know, a flash flood washed up our house. The water came in really fast and in an hour, the water was waist deep in our living room. Most of our stuff got wet - 95% of it. I've made a list of all of those stuff because I am in the process of salvaging those that got wet. I've crossed out the one's that are now working:

TV
Mouse
External Drive
Microwave
Fridge
Pickup Truck
Shredder
Stove
Sterilizer
Power Supply
3 Electric Fans
Rice Cooker
Extension Cords
Air Conditioning Unit
Blender
Digital Kitchen Timer - trashed
Calculator
Webcam
Speakerssss
Air Purifier
Rechargeable Flashlight - this one's supposed to be waterproof but I'm not sure if it can be submerged.
Printer
Turbo Broiler
Oven Toaster
Vacuum Cleaner
Video Cam
Digicam Charger
Video Cam Charger
DVD Player
PS3 Controllers
UPS
Laptop Computer
Power Drill
UPS
Musical Table
Espresso Machine
Ice Cream Maker
Headset - trashed

Technically, these are all the stuff that got wet that you would normally think twice before using. I'll update it when I can each time we get something working or not.

If You Are Reading This, You Have Been Blessed

2009-10-04T23:54:00.008+08:00

I'm not sure how to write this post. I'm thinking I should just forget about it (notice that I didn't shoot pictures of it) but it is something bad that has happened to our family and could happen to just about anybody as well - whatever your status in life is. I just wanted to share our story of how we were blessed last September 26.

- I woke up late (10:30am) besides the fact that I have been waking up 9-10am everyday for 3 weeks already - part of my plan to change my everyday routine.
- It has been raining really hard the whole night.
- I looked out in front of our garage because I heard a car was parking in front of our house.
- I noticed there's already a water build up and is probably the reason why the car was trying to park on the side walk in front of our house.
- I wasn't worried knowing that our area has never been flooded. I'm used to having flood because I grew up in a place where it floods with little rain. Thus, I choose to live in areas that does not flood.
- I went back in the room to wake up hubby "just" to show him the water coming in.
- We noticed the water was rising.
- We planned to raise the washing machine which is located far back of the garage.
- Hubby backed up the pickup truck so we could place the washing machine at the back of it.
- We didn't get to raise it because the water started to come into the house!
- In the blink of an eye, there is water all over the living room and kitchen floors.
- Pulled out all the cables from the broadband box, television, DVD players and tried to bring them all in the rooms which is 4 stair steps higher than the living room.
- I asked hubby to turn off the power supply. Water is past my ankles already.
- We also tried to bring the television in the rooms but it's too heavy we can't carry it past the stairs.
- Heard Portia wailing from her cage and realized that she's already standing on her back feet. I got her out and placed her on the bed. Water is knee deep.
- I brought my laptop in the room as well.
- Water was past my knees and we were still trying to raise the television but the stubborn thing doesn't want to go up the stairs.
- I looked out the sliding door to see that more water is about to come in. There was about 6 inches difference. The sliding door is glass so I'm torn. If I shut it close, the glass might break. If I open it wider, more water would come in faster.
- Rocky barked. Someone's at the door? Not. He's standing on his back feet and the water's at his kneck.
- Hubby brought him into the bath room which is almost at the same level as the rooms.
- Bang!
- Looking at the direction of the sound we saw the refrigerator floating on the water.
- We realized we should forget about the television and instead raise the fridge. Food is more important than the tv.
- We slid the fridge on the stairs. It was easier than raising the tv. Except that it's lying down instead of standing on it's feet. There goes my stored breastmilk.
- Now, the water is almost waist high and it has reached the rooms.
- I called my Mom without knowing what she or I could do. She's a city away. I guess I'm just letting her know how I'm doing.
- My Mom wanted to fetch me but we heard news from a friend that two jeepneys has been taken by the water current on the road that they are going to take.
- The water was an inch high in the bedrooms when it stopped rising.
- We tried to raise more stuff into the higher cabinets.
- We started to pack our things - important things that we will bring should we need to leave the house.
- The rain wasn't stopping still and the road in front of our house looks like a river for whitewater rafting. Except that we don't have a boat and the life jacket and the helmets. So the idea of going out is not an option.
- It was 1pm without breakfast so the cold pizza from the previous night seems to be the best food ever. Except that there's only 3 slices left and there were 3 mouths to feed.
- I offered to nurse Jack Jack since I was not able to feed him anything since that morning.
- Water started to rise again. Only this time it was slow.
- We have nowhere to raise our things anymore.
- My pick-up truck is also submerged in water up to it's dashboard.
- Water stopped rising at almost knee deep but our bed is already wet - we cannot stay anymore.
- It stopped raining hard but still raining.
- A friend came over to fetch us. He's with his cousins. They helped us carry our stuff out of the house. And into the water-filled street.
- Portia was stuffed into a backpack.
- Rocky was left in the bathroom.
- I couldn't find my slippers.
- Jack Jack laughed seeing the water but later on cried when he couldn't see me. Hubby was holding him.
- I saw dead cockroaches floating. Eeeeww... but felt sorry that they aren't as lucky.
- The water was almost chest deep outside our gates.
- Remember the car that parked there that morning? It's still there. Which is just 2 inches short of being completely submerged.
- Walking barefoot in the water is easier than having slippers on.
- I don't know what time that is anymore. I'm just glad that we got out.
- We waited for ANY vehicle that would take us to ANY hotel.
- A cab driver agreed to take us to Eurotel but he is such an insensitive jerk.
- Cab driver asked us to use our dry clothing to sit on because his seats would be wet from our clothing.
- I was itching to tell him, "I hope this does not happen to you or your family." but that's bad.
- Hubby and I weren't in the mood to argue.
- We got stuck in traffic on the way.
- I had to leave them in the cab to find a restroom. I had to do number 1 so badly.
- Borrowed hubby's slippers. He's the only one who's wearing slippers.
- Cab driver did not wait in the traffic for me so I walked all the way to the hotel.
- It's just a block away but it was raining so hard so I was soaked even if I was wearing a jacket.
- I went through a mall to get out of the rain and save me from more soaking.
- Reached the hotel to find out that they are fully booked.
- Never knowing what to do, an angel tipped us to just order anything from the lobby.
- She said they'd give us a room if we just wait. They're just saying they are full so that the waiting list isn't so long.
- We ordered something.
- Hubby changed his clothes and used his slippers to go to the mall. He'll buy diapers (I forgot to bring) and slippers.
- I also changed my clothes. Walked around the lobby area barefoot.
- I tried to nurse Jack Jack again but he kept on glancing around the lobby. It was not dark and not quiet so his curiousness kicks in.
- I went back and forth their check-in counter with Jack Jack. And yes, I used him as leverage to get a room.
- After about 2 hours, we were able to check into a room with clean sheets, tv and hot shower.
- It was also about the same time our dinner was served.
- Jack Jack had so much fun with the light switches located at the headboard.
- His laughs were the only thing that brightened up that gloomy day.
- Portia was finally let out. The hotel might not take us in if they saw Portia.
- Portia was very good and no accidents inside the bag.
- Had our dinner.
- Gave some leftover for Portia - I forgot to bring her food.
- I nursed Jack Jack to sleep. Had I not been nursing him, I don't know what I would be feeding him.
- We watched tv and saw some more people affected by the flash flood.
- Heard a lot of people are stuck on top of their roofs of two story houses!!!

Except for some bruises (that we don't know where we got) plus poor Portia broke a nail, we're very lucky we're all safe. When we got back at our house it was a mess. A big mess. Rocky was safe inside the bathroom but I think he has developed another phobia. Water phobia. He's also claustrophobic by the way.

When the house owner visited us after 2 days to see the damages, he said it has never flooded in this area. Ever. Which I think is pretty much true. I know because you will see watermarks if the are has been flooded before and the smell would also be different. I know because, as I said, I used to live in a place where flood is a usual thing.

Phonethics

2009-08-28T18:46:00.001+08:00

Hello?!

Technical Support?!

Businessman?!

Hiccups Aren't Funny

2009-07-29T15:00:00.002+08:00

Well, at least for me. Unfortunately, most people I know would make fun of my hiccups. I don't find it funny because it's annoying when they occur.

It's quite fine when they occur and I just ignore it. The thing is that even Jack Jack find it funny. Now that's really annoying!

Jack Jack's Car

2009-07-28T15:07:00.000+08:00

Do you know why he has his feet up?

Because he wants you to push him.

Meme: 10 Things About Me

2009-07-27T15:13:00.002+08:00

Been tagged by sweetseoul. This is fun!

1. I'm a breastfeeding advocate.
2. I'm a belly dancer - in the privacy of my house.
3. I haven't been away from Jack Jack longer than 18 hours since I gave birth to him He's now 14 months old.
4. I am lazy.
5. I rarely cry.
6. I am OC.
7. If I am researching on anything, I'd go to GirlTalk first before googling.
8. Delegating is a bit of a challenge for me because of #6.
9. I could live without a cellphone but not the internet.
10. I like to travel.

These are the Rules of this Tag:
- Tell your readers 10 things about you that they may or may not know, but are true.
- Tag ten people and be sure to let them know they've been tagged (a quick comment on their blog will do).
- Don't forget to link back to the blogger who tagged you.

Here's the thing. I'd be deviating from the rules and I'd just ask my readers to do the tag should they feel like doing it. Enjoy!

Time Management

2009-07-26T15:52:00.003+08:00

If evolution really works, how come mothers only have two hands? ~Milton Berle

I have never been used to time management. "Later" is always a favorite word but is becoming a bad habit. Being OC and lazy (worst combination), I try my very hardest to organize my schedule, my stuff and my life in a way that everything will be easy but somehow manageable.

Before I accepted my full time job, my schedule was more flexible. I could do my groceries, go to belly dancing class, go to my parent's house, cook, surf and be with Jack Jack - anytime I want. I also happen to have a ME time.

Now, I'm trying to figure out a way to fit in everything in the hope that the ME time wouldn't be eliminated from the list. I believe this is going to drive me crazy if ever.

Last week was just crazy. My housekeeper went home because of a family emergency. She asked for only a 3-day leave last Sunday. She asked for another day come Tuesday. She asked for another day the next day because a family member passed away. I looked at our dirty laundry to see a big pile of clothes. Then I thought, "Oh my gawd! She's not coming back!" The thought of housekeeping, working and caring for Jack Jack alone is just overwhelming!

To make things worse, I developed a cold and an itchy throat midweek. This happened besides the fact that I was taking my vitamins regularly due to the pandemic flu. It must be the stress of thinking how to work things out should I lose my housekeeper.

I still couldn't think of how I would be able to do all things that needs to be done. So much for a ME time! Anyways, she informed me she's on her way back later that Friday. I was so relieved I could have kissed her if she was right in front me. I just tried my best not to when she got here - haha!

Things are a bit better now. But I still have to prepare for events as such should it occur again in the future. I hate the feeling that I became too dependent on someone because I used to be a person who can manage housework and Jack Jack alone. I thought I should change it and trained myself to designate anything that isn't Jack Jack related. Since I got a full-time job, I don't know how to fit everything without missing a sleep. I have yet to figure that out.

For anyone who has the same situation, how do you fit everything into your schedule?

Image is from craft and co.

Belly Kisses

2009-07-25T15:33:00.000+08:00

At the end of my day's work, I always get cranky. It makes me feel guilty because I sometimes lose my patience with just about anything. Even with Jack Jack. Especially now that he's getting more and more curious exploring his new found world. I'm no angel, you know. I am not hitting him or anything but there are times when I couldn't really open my eyes to help him to nurse. Yes! I help him nurse because he can sometimes find his way to my breast! But then, other times, he can't. I feel like a bad mother because up until now, I still can't tell exactly what he wants. Hungry? Sleepy? Cranky? It's always a guessing game. I try to make a schedule when he would bathe, sleep and eat but most of the time it doesn't go as planned. And so, the schedule goes out the window. Sometimes, he would sleep at this time. Tomorrow, he won't. Meal schedule is another problem because he won't eat if he's sleeping or awake but sleepy. Ugh!

Okay, enough on blabbing and let me just show you this video. He gives me belly kisses when he wants something. Now this -- takes all the bad trip away!

The Bumkins Bib Giveaway!

2009-07-19T00:24:00.003+08:00

No, it's not from me. It's actually from Jane of Fab Fab Finds! I wanted the Bumkins Bib for little Jack Jack. He is, as always, becoming more and more of a food grabber everyday. Well, not that he is putting all of it into his mouth. Most of it drops on the floor or him. So, definitely, this will save ~~the housekeeper~~ his clothes a lot of trouble.

As mentioned, it is ideal for first-time feeders, the Starter Bib is made from Bumkins' proprietary waterproof fabric. It is stain and odor-resistant, and easy to clean and wash. It features a catch-all pocket for messy eaters, and best of all, it's BPA-, PVC-, vinyl- and phthalate-free! No harmful toxins for your little one!

Pretty cool, huh?!

This oh so cute and environmentally friendly Starter Bib is exclusively distributed by Terra Babies Boutique in the Philippines.

If you want one for your baby, click here to join the contest.

Naughty Jack Jack

2009-07-13T02:49:00.002+08:00

I'm not sure why he likes it when he gets to hit something. Especially, when you make sounds for some actions he does. I'd really appreciate if someone could explain why he also laughs when you say, "Ouch!"

Working At Home Full Time

2009-07-10T14:05:00.000+08:00

Now, that I have gotten a full time job working at home, I've got my hands down to mothers who are working. Breastfeeding or not, it is hard to leave your baby at home to work.

I pumped as much as I could during the weekend to build a milk supply for Jack Jack's night feedings. The job offer came in as a surprise especially that it was offered to me full time. I couldn't really be sure how much he's drinking since we are used to nursing directly. I'm so glad I was able to stock 15 oz. of breast milk.

Monday night. Everything has been set. Milk has been thawed for Jack Jack. We had dinner early so I can tuck him to sleep early as well. Before 10 PM, he's off to Never Never Land.

My training starts at 11 PM so I still have time to spare. Hubby got home just in time so I was able to go online before 11 PM. Everything seems to be working well.

I thought it would be easier because Jack Jack would be close to me even if I'm working. I can always see him whenever I want. Much to my dismay, I think breastfeeding and working at home was harder for me. Firstly, because it was the first time that I'd be away from him for a long time since his first and last sleepover. I also have the unfortunate event that I would hear him cry but I can't nurse him for food or comfort. Looking at him and seeing his face longing for my touch is just heartbreaking. I was so close to quitting.

Anyways, I got through the night and quickly nursed him right after working hours (8 AM).

I'm so glad I have support from my husband and my Mom on this. Otherwise, I would've quit after a day's work.

I pumped my milk every 4 hours. My legs can hold the pump in place while sitting on my chair so both of my hands are free once I'm done setting it up. After pumping, the milk is labeled and placed in the fridge along with the breastpump for the next pumping session. I wash and sterilize all breastpump parts and feeding bottles after work.

I'm at the last two days of training. Next week, I'm hoping that I'd be working on my own timezone. At least, I can work anytime I want.

Here's my favorite part everyday!

Image is taken after nursing Jack Jack after work hours.

The Princess And The Chick Pea (And The Grape And The Walnut)

2009-07-08T12:56:00.005+08:00

Thanks to Melodie of the Breastfeeding Moms Unite for allowing me to repost this very cute and inspiring story. Makes me remember the time I gave birth to Jack Jack in the hospital. I hope you guys would enjoy it like I did.

(The following story is fictional. Should you see yourself in the Queen then kudos to you!)

Once upon a time (as recent as a moment ago), there was a Queen who gave birth to a Princess. What made her a Queen was that her partner called her one, and what made their daughter a Princess was because they thought her so. Aside from the nicknames, the Queen and the Princess were not unlike any other woman or baby girl.

Shortly after the Princess was born the Queen tried to breastfeed her but the Princess wouldn’t latch. The Queen was disappointed but knew she would try again later. The baby slept for a couple hours and then she tried to nurse her again. Again the Princess wouldn’t latch.

“Isn’t she nursing yet?” inquired a nurse coming into the room. “She looks hungry. I can get her a bottle of formula.”

“Oh, no!” replied the Queen. “She’s fine.”

The nurse looked at the Queen with concern. I’m going to come back in one hour and if that baby hasn’t nursed she’s getting a bottle. You don’t want her to starve do you?” And with that the nurse left.

Rattled, but not to be disuaded the Queen tried to nurse the Princess again. Still no luck. Now the Princess was screaming and all the rocking and cuddling and shushing didn’t work. The Queen asked her partner to take the baby for a short walk so she could collect her thoughts and figure out what to do. The Queen had had two other children. All of them had been breastfed. The Queen had attended numerous La Leche League meetings and was passionate about breastfeeding. She knew there must be a way to nourish her daughter without resorting to formula. Then she remembered. She decided to hand express some colostrum into a spoon. Satisfied with the teaspoon she made, she fed it to the Princess when she returned. The Princess took the spoon, swallowed the colostrum and went back to sleep.

A new mom in the bed over, who hadn’t seen what had happened but who had overheard the commotion with the nurse and crying baby, leaned over and whispered to the Queen, “My baby didn’t latch either so I let the nurses give him some formula. One bottle can’t hurt, is my opinion. Then the baby sleeps and you get some well deserved rest too.”

The woman next to her piped in “My baby latched but my milk hasn’t come in yet. I told the nurses I was concerned by how much he sleeps so they recommended I give him a bottle too. Aren’t you worried your baby might be getting hungry?” The two women looked at each other with a kind of solidarity sympathy.

Ah, the comraderie in ignorance, thought the Queen, who had been hoping to avoid this kind of confrontation. She took a deep breath and said to the first woman, “My baby is only a few hours old. Her stomach is the size of a chick pea. How did your son fare when you gave him the bottle?”

The woman looked confused by this reply. “Uh,” she stammered. “He threw most of it up, but he did get a little down. Why?”

“He threw it up because a day old baby can’t fit that amount of formula in his stomach,” said the Queen pointing to the empty bottle on the side table. “and tomorrow, she continued, his stomach will only gave grown to the size of a grape. So that’s how much milk he will need tomorrow. There’s the perfect amount of colostrum in your breasts to satisfy his hunger.” She smiled weakly at the woman. “I didn’t mean to put you off. I just hate how uninformed so many maternity nurses are. And I’m sorry to tell you this but one bottle of formula does make a difference. It introduces a strain of bacteria to his intestines that would otherwise not be there and it can affect his immune system.”

The woman looked horrified. “What should I do?” she asked.

“Tell them to help you with your latch,” offered the Queen, “or ask to speak to the hospital’s lactation consultant. Or just relax and let the baby latch when he’s ready. That’s what I’m trying to do. This one is my third. They do catch on eventually. They have to eat right? And before formula came along babies breastfed. I can’t imagine many babies died from from failure to latch correctly in the first few days.” She turned to the second woman. “How old is your son?” she inquired.

“He’s just over three days old.”

“You don’t need to be worried that your milk hasn’t come in yet. It will. It always does. Some women’s milk just takes a little longer to come in than others, but it’s still normal to wait up to five days. And he’s getting all he needs from your colostrum too. His tummy is only the size of a walnut so he still doesn’t need too much. I guarantee it! Oh look, here comes my little Princess!”

The Princess was awake and peaceful now. The Queen had disapated most of her stress from the earlier incident with the nurse by talking with her neighbours and felt quite relaxed. “Put her on my belly,” she instructed her partner.

The baby lay on her chest with her little head turned to one side. Her lips turned into a little birdie beak and she began to root. Back and forth her head turned searching for food until at last she sensed what she wanted. She moved towards it her mouth open wide, and finally, with a smack of her lips she latched and began to suck. Her partner looked down on the Queen and the Princess with amazement and joy. A nurse who had been watching quietly from behind the curtain sucked in her breath. “Well, I never!” she stated. They all watched in wonder as the Princess nursed for a few minutes on each side and then fell asleep in milked-out bliss.

“Well, I guess I can cancel the formula,” said the nurse, turning to go. “For now.”

“My Princess won’t be needing any formula,” said the Queen. “This baby was born healthy, with a healthy weight to a healthy mom. She is breastfeeding now and I will continue to do so. She doesn’t need formula to fill her up because her stomach is the size of a chick pea. Tomorrow it will be the size of a grape and the next day the size of a walnut!” She took a breath and went on.”Furthermore, although I do hope you already know this, my breasts make colostrum to provide antibodies to my baby, not to serve the nutritive equivalent of a five course meal! My baby needs to sleep and adjust to the world, she does not need to be force fed formula. By giving these babies formula you’re interfering in their breastfeeding relationships with their mothers. You’re “f-ing” with these mom’s perfectly fine milk supply levels and setting them up to fail. As well you’re taking away from these precious babies their chance to receive nature’s finest immunity building substance known to people-kind! Tell me you already know all this and you’re just being forced by your manager or formula companies to give these babies bottles and I’ll stop yelling at you and go yell at someone else instead!”

The nurse was pale. “Uh,” she stammered. “Uhhhh…” and then without another word she turned and flew out of the room.

“Okay, settle down sweetie,” whispered the partner, “You’re going to wake the baby.”

There was clapping from behind the curtain. The Queen started to cry.

“What’s wrong?” asked her partner in alarm. “Are you okay?”

“I’m just so glad she latched,” said the Queen, as her shoulders heaved and she wiped away her tears.

Bumps & Bruises

2009-07-05T23:28:00.005+08:00

With how energetic Jack Jack is now, I can't help it when he injures himself. Usually, he would bump his head or get a scratch from something. I feel guilty and would always blame myself because I'm a mother. It's just terrible. I hope that I can always shield him from harms way. The idea of Bubble Boy will always come into my mind. Perhaps a baby helmet?

Anyways, the little twerp recently just had his biggest bruising ever! I hope there wouldn't be a bump bigger than this in the future. See above image.

From this, I thought about talking about first aids. I'm not an expert or a doctor but here's from my experience:

1. Ice. I use ice to apply to any bump he gets. Make sure you have a clothe or towel between the ice and the skin when applying. Otherwise, baby can get ice burn.

2. Propolis. It's what I use for skin irritations and infections. Good for relief of persistent skin rashes, skin itches, insect bites, infected wounds & burns. It can be purchased here.

3. Hirudoid Cream. For bruises that cannot be remedied by the ice.

As of now, this is my list. I always have the good old alcohol and betadine at hand wishing I would never use them besides disinfecting.

About the bruise, it didn't get this red until 2 days later. It was hard and warm if you feel it by hand. His doctor gave us antibiotics for it and required to apply hot compress. She says the bruising occurred inside the skin. After 2 days of antibiotics, the hardness is gone and the redness is clearing up but I still have 5 more days of antibiotics.

I know the the bruising hurts but I'm glad that it didn't cause him to have a fever from the pain. He just became a bit warm after his flu shot was administered last Friday.

While You're Breastfeeding or Pumping

2009-07-03T03:17:00.008+08:00

If you've been breastfeeding for a while, it sometimes gets boring if you're just watching your baby nurse. This proves to be true for WAHM like me, who nurses their babies directly everyday. It's a different situation for Working Moms though. When you're nursing, it doesn't mean that you can't do anything else. Woman are known for their skill in multitasking, huh!

Here's a list of the things that I enjoy doing while nursing. Please don't get shocked if some items are a bit odd:

Sleeping. This is just about my favorite. This is one of the advantages of nursing your baby. Mommy gets to sleep! How great is that?

Watch Baby Sleep. This goes before sleeping because I get sleepy when I watch Jack Jack sleep. I know I mentioned that this sometimes bores me. I said "sometimes" so most of the time, it just amuses me that sometimes, I don't want to put him down even if he's already asleep and content.

Eat. Nursing your baby will definitely double (or sometime triple) your appetite so don't starve yourself. Eat and drink when you are hungry or thirsty.

Pump while nursing or nurse while pumping. This will help you increase your milk supply and also increase your stored milk for when times you need to leave baby or when you need to go back to work. This will start to be a challenge on the fifth month where all the curiousity starts.

Watch TV. I really enjoy doing this because there's not much moving involved except when you need to change the channel.

Read a book or listen to an audio book. For real books, this is a bit challenging when changing the page but it's possible.

Sing. No, I don't sing like how I sing in the shower (you get the picture?!). I sing baby songs or nursery songs or whatever you call those slow songs.

Surf the net/Chat. One of my favorites but it's really difficult to use only one hand for the keyboard.

Play games on my phone/Text. This has gotten me through the first weeks of Jack Jack.

Make a To Do/Grocery List. As long as I'm holding my phone, this one's a great help for me to remember things I need to do or buy.

Daydream. Don't you?

Talk on the phone. Great way to keep in touch with families and friends!

Travel/Walk Around. I can walk with baby nursing. It's also possible in a moving vehicle.

Do you think I'd get a ticket for driving while nursing? Haven't tried it though.

Perhaps:

Bowling?!

Or Yoga?!

Oral Care: Brushing Kid's Teeth

2009-07-02T15:12:00.001+08:00

I'm not sure if it is working or not (because I don't know where Jack Jack has kept his toothbrush after this). I just know that he's interested and happy while we were brushing his teeth.

First we watched these toothpaste commercials on YouTube:

Then I took Jack Jack to the bathroom with me. Put a bit of his toothpaste on his toothbrush. Did the same thing on mine. Showed him how to do it. Handed his toothbrush to him. Sing a bit of the ad commercial while brushing. Works like magic!

Problem occurred when he didn't want to stop brushing. He'd cry if I take the toothbrush away so I let him hold it for a while. Next thing I know, the toothbrush is nowhere in sight!

We have tried to find where the toothbrush went to no avail. Time to buy another one. I'll try remember not to leave it with him no matter what.

Before Formatting Your Laptop/Desktop Computer

2009-07-01T20:04:00.002+08:00

I recently formatted my laptop and I wanted to make sure that I was ready by making a list of all the things I need to do before formatting. But still, I forgot to do something else. Now, I want to make a list of them all to make sure that next time, it won't happen again.

1. BACKUP!!! How many times do I have to reiterate this? (Sorry. I think my former job has something to do with the attitude here.) I'm not angry, I just want to make sure that this item would get into you (or me) and will never be forgotten. I didn't forget about backing up. In fact, I would usually backup files from the My Documents folder because that's where most of my files are located.

2. List applications to be installed. Go to your Add or Remove Programs window. This can be accessed through the Control Panel window. Then list all the applications that you need to install. Skip the applications you haven't used for more than 6 months. If you haven't used it that long, there's a bigger chance you will never use it again.

3. Installers and drivers. Locate where you keep all your installers and drivers. This includes installers for applications, operating system, printer, scanner, etc.

4. Links. If you frequently surf the net, chances are, you've got your favorite links bookmarked on your browser. Include this item to backup. For Internet Explorer, your Favorites folder is in the following path:

{Windows Directory}:\Documents and Settings\{User Name}\Favorites

The bookmarked pages are stored differently from browser to browser. Refer to your browser's Help file for assistance.

I forgot to backup the last item so, "Yay me!" Now, I'm missing some of my favorite sites to visit.

I think I got everything covered now. I'll just look this list up the next time I'm formatting which I hope is not anytime soon.

If I forgot to include something, please let me know. We'll update this post.

Review: Medela Swing

2009-06-30T15:24:00.003+08:00

Since I have talked about how I feel about the Medela Freestyle, I think it is just about fair that I also talked about the Medela Swing. You know she might hear that I'm all for the Freestyle and suddenly decides to quit on me. And that is just going to make me so sad.

Don't get me wrong. I love my Medela Swing... She's never put me down - ever - except for days that I leave it in the fridge unwashed because I don't have the time to clean it. I know you'd say, “Eeeeewww.” But that's another story. Let's focus on my breastfeeding partner.

Anyways, I made the mistake of purchasing my Medela Swing after giving birth. I had the all time myth on my mind that I would not have milk and the breast pump would be a waste, so there.

Actually, I pre-ordered my Medela Swing from an online seller which means I will receive the breast pump in a month or so (with my fingers crossed!). I chose to pre-order than have it bought it from a local dealer because it is cheaper. Waaay cheaper. Even with the shipping cost added to it. The only difference is the input voltage wherein the local dealer would give you 220V adaptors. Since the pre-ordered breast pump would come all the way from across the globe (United State), you would receive the 110V adaptors. This is easily solved by those cute little 90 Watts transformers from your local hardware store. I got mine from True Value for a little bit less than Php500. Others say Ace Hardware has it also.

Moving on, the Swing is light in weight (2.5 lbs.) and compact in size (about 6 inches in diameter). Since it comes in its own pouch, I can fit it into any bag that I have. Well, most of my bags are a bit big in size because I pack heavy. All parts of the Swing are BPA free making it more appealing for me.

I also find it mobile. It doesn’t have the rechargeable batteries that the Freestyle has but it can be powered by 4 AA batteries. I have been able to pump milk in the comforts of a vehicle (moving or not).

For me, the sound is quiet enough that I could pump with Jack Jack sleeping beside me. I don’t know why others are saying it’s loud because it’s not.

It’s been a year since I bought it and the strength of the suction is still the same. I can completely empty my breast after pumping for 15 minutes. Although the breastshield is a bit deformed. Probably from the many times I have sterilized it.

My favorite feature of the Medela Swing is its 2-Phase Expression Technology which mimics the baby’s suckling. You can also adjust the suction strength from pushing two buttons.

UPDATE: July 12, 2009

I noticed that I didn't include the cons of using the Swing. I guess it doesn't bother me much which is why I forgot to mention them. I feel that this wouldn't be a valid review if there's none so here it is...

It is a single pump. Pumping time is longer because I would need to transfer to the other breast and another 15-3o minutes of pumping would be needed. Also, others say that let-down is stronger when suckling is done from both breasts - the reason why others nurse and pump simultaneously. I haven't tried using a double pump though.

The tubing also accumulates condensation while you are pumping. Sometimes the moisture is too much that it can be sucked into the pump motor. This is, however, mentioned in the breastpump's user manual but it might damage the pump motor if the moisture reaches it. Simply allow the motor running with only the tubing attached to the motor and the moisture will dry.

Since I spend most of my time at home with the baby, this is just about the perfect breast pump for me. Well, at least that's what I thought last year.

Specifications and other features of the Medela Swing can be found here.

Jack Jack's Ferrari

2009-06-29T15:06:00.001+08:00

I know you want another video of Jack Jack in action. So, here you go!

He likes playing, obviously. He does this all day and won't stop unless he's hungry.

Best and Lovely Blog Award

2009-06-28T13:36:00.013+08:00

I haven't received any awards lately. I remember I did way way back before. This award was given to my by yuuki from it's not always about me.

And so, I would like to thank my husband who's always supportive. My baby Jack Jack who always inspires me and his kisses keeps me going on. To my fellow bloggers on Girltalk: you guys rock!!! Yuuki... I'm glad you picked me for this award. THANK YOU ALL!

Hahaha! Feeling Oscars.

Now to share this to other bloggers:

Chronicles of a Nursing Mom

AIKAFIERCE

Confessions of a Soapaholic

Drama Queen

Lovin' Life

Mindfreak Mhack

Milk Station

Moments, Events, Places and More...

Money Whys and How-Tos

Naturals and Minerals

TADAIMA

cecilywishes

My Castle In The Sky

The Circle of True Friendship

When a word to represent all

The rules for these awards are:

1) Accept the award, post it on your blog together with the name of the person who has granted the award and his or her blog link.

2) Pass the award to 15 other blogs that you’ve discovered. Remember to contact the bloggers to let them know they have been chosen for this award.

Breastfeeding Resources

2009-06-27T15:06:00.001+08:00

Basically, the best way to really be able to breastfeed successfully is to learn as much as you can in breastfeeding. Sure, you can hire a lactation counselor in your area and you better make sure she's available 24/7. Otherwise, you will need to rely on yourself. Thus, the importance of learning the basics.

There are usually available resources in your local bookstore. I was lucky enough to get a copy of The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding: Seventh Revised Edition (La Leche League International Book).

If you are internet savvy, then you've got a handful of information available to you. You can join an online support group for breastfeeding to meet with other nursing mothers. You might also be able to find a group near your area from searching online. My favorite breastfeeding sites are as follows:

Kellymom: Breastfeeding and Parenting
Breastfeeding Moms Unite!
Breastfeeding.com - Everything for the New Mom
Mother-2-Mother

I know that's a lot of stuff to go through so if you have any questions and you can't find the answer anywhere, just let me know. Maybe I can tell you the answer or maybe we'll both look for it. (wink! wink!)

I do not know what I would do without these resources. I'm thinking I could've mot been able to fulfill my breastfeeding dream.

Please do not forget to vote on the poll: "How long are you planning on breastfeeding your baby?". It's located in the sidebar.

How Long Are You Planning On Breastfeeding?

2009-06-26T15:01:00.002+08:00

I was always asked this question whenever they hear that I am nursing. Jack Jack is now 13 months old and I'm still nursing him on demand. Ofcourse, I supplement it with other food already.

Basically, I am planning on breastfeeding Jack Jack for as long as he wants. I am also hoping that I get to tandem nurse should we have another child soon.

Now, I'm turning the tables.

How long are you planning on breastfeeding your baby?(online surveys)

How Addicted to Blogging Are You?

2009-06-25T15:44:00.003+08:00

72%

Created by OnePlusYou - Free Dating Site

Am I, really? How about you?

Starting Solids

2009-06-24T15:28:00.003+08:00

I started giving Jack Jack solids at around 7 or 8 months. I wasn’t in any hurry. I knew my milk would be enough. Besides, I cannot find (from research) a good reason for me to start feeling him solids early. Actually, around 7 to 8 months was the time I saw his readiness for solids.

So, yeah! Being my stubborn self, my Mom and I used to debate on what to give and what not to give. She was talking from experience and I was talking from the latest research.

Jack Jack would practically open his mouth for anything that you offer him. Potato, squash, banana, carrot, sweet potato, cauliflower, broccoli and most especially, avocado.

Anyways, after a while, he would refuse everything but cereals. And lately, I would need to get him to laugh or play with me before he opens his mouth. If he does open his mouth for a bite, he would taste it for a while then push it out with his tongue. So much for all the work that’s been done! Anyways, after a few more bites and playing around, he would swallow the food without pushing anything out.

At least now he’s eating it. I’m pretty much adjusting his cereals intake. I mix it with other fruits or vegetables just so he would think it is just cereals and gradually adjusting it to be more food than cereals until he can eat the food without cereals.

Another problem I’m trying to solve is his ability to screen the food that is put in his mouth. If the mashed food is anything bigger than the usual size, he would push it out. It seems like he’s got a built-in strainer in his mouth. I try to mash the food to as small as it can be. Or sometimes if I get lucky, he swallows it anyways.

He now has 4 upper and 4 lower teeth for biting. I’m thinking it could be his reflex that makes him push out bigger pieces of food since he can’t chew it yet. However, how come he likes munching on biscuits?

From an article I read before (sorry, I can’t remember where), it says that at his age, he wants to feed himself. This is probably why he’s got this much appetite on biscuits. So, I tried to place the spoon on his hand with the food and he put it in his mouth. Yay! I’m not sure if I am ready for some really messy Jack Jack but I guess I am willing to try.

I’m still looking for other ways to encourage him to eat more “people food”. I am also trying to feed him solids at least an hour after our nursing sessions just to ensure he isn’t so full from it.

If you have any suggestions for me (I hope), violent reactions, comments, I’m very interested to hear it.

Super thanks to my Mom for her patience with me and Jack Jack and Crizzny for lots of inputs on feeding.

Lola Techie

2009-06-23T15:29:00.001+08:00

I am not promoting their products but I would like to commend them for really catchy ad concepts.

I think I should teach my Mom how to use the internet...

Twitter + Tiggerlily = @Twiggerlily

2009-06-22T15:12:00.001+08:00

Lately, I've been twittering. It is a free social networking and micro-blogging service that enables its users to send and read each others' updates. All you have to do is answer the question, "What are you doing?"

At first, I thought it is just a redundant thing and I do not see anybody following my twitter account. Then I thought, whatever! I'm blogging anyways... without really thinking who's going to read it. But hey! YOU! are reading it... Aren't you? Gotcha!

If you're interested to twitter, you can sign up from here. If you want to follow me on twitter (why?), you can can click here or on the follow me on Twitter link at the left hand side of my blog.

For a Twitter tutorial, I've found this from The Organized Mom. A complete Help documentation for Twitter can be found here.

By TwitterButtons.com

Father's Day

2009-06-21T23:20:00.003+08:00

I almost slept the day away. Well, I'm awake now...

To hubby and my Papa.... Happy Father's Day!

Sleep Deprived

2009-06-20T15:03:00.001+08:00

I am thinking that I have been sleep depriving myself unconsciously. I do not mean to not sleep but this addiction to the internet seems to be the main culprit of having the lack of zzzz's in my life. I posted this to set a bedtime for myself. I should have more time to shut my eyes. I'm thinking it should at least be around 2 AM. I know that's still late but it gives me enough time to do my task over the internet before dozing off.

I need the sleep especially that I am still nursing Jack Jack. Even my skin is sufferring from the abuse. I'm just thankful for ACV (I'll have a post for this soon) that it is able to control the breakouts I'm having.

Now that I've said all that, I hope that I'd behave and be asleep by my new bedtime. Otherwise, I think I would need to go on rehab if there's one for internet addiction.

Breastfeeding Tips

2009-06-19T15:29:00.001+08:00

I missed blogging about breastfeeding. Since a friend has just given birth and 4 more are on the way, I'm dedicating this post to them. If you have a problem with nudity, don't bother watching the videos.

- If you wish to unlatch, you can either use your smallest finger to push his jaw down to break the suction or cover his nose with one finger. Do not pull the baby as this will result to sore nipples.

- Cleaning your nipples once a day or taking a bath should be enough. Cleaning your nipples more than this would dry it resulting to sore nipples. Nipples has its natural oils that moisturizes the nipple area. Thus, cleaning will strip this oils away.

- If you're building a milk supply before you go back to work, you can also pump your other breast while the baby is nursing. Your let down would be much faster since the baby is suckling on your other breast.

- Relax or look at your baby's picture or video while pumping away from baby. This will help you with the let-down.

The additional tips above are from personal and friend's experiences that I never get to read online or on books. For more information on breastfeeding, visit the kellymom website.

UPDATE: There's now 5 on the way!!! Congratulations!

Little Big Sister

2009-06-18T15:19:00.002+08:00

Portia, the little big sister, has learned how to behave on the bed. Every night, after putting Jack Jack to sleep, Portia can be allowed on the bed. Like how she used to, she would run around the bed before finding a spot for her to sleep on.

She's are real grown up now and she's never had any accidents on the bed since we moved. She knows pretty well that she's not allowed to go near Jack Jack although sometimes he gets real curious and try to smell him.

If ever Jack Jack wakes up for his night feedings, he would immediately go to another spot beside my feet. She would lick your fingers or snuggle next to you if you are feeling down.

I'm lucky to have sweet children...

Couch Potato Baby Part 2

2009-06-17T15:50:00.001+08:00

Remember the first part? It's just funny how the TV catches Jack Jack's full attention.

The A(H1N1) scare

2009-06-16T22:41:00.002+08:00

Who's not scared anyways? Currently, this has been the talk of the town since the flu has spread exponentially here in the Philippines. It's not even a month since they found one who got sick from it and look at how many people infected already.

You will think how it has spread so fast in so little time but I guess just like in any situation information is your best weapon. Thus, with my online best friend, Google, I searched for something that has the complete information.

I found a booklet over at The D Spot which appears complete to me without my ears or nose bleeding from any medical jargons. The booklet originally came from UN and it's like the A(H1N1) for Dummies book. Hehe!

I'm scared for Jack Jack if any of us in the house would be infected by the flu. Lately, we've stocked on vitamins and I went back to taking my Natalac capsules. Mind you that Natalac is not only for lactation purposes but for stocking up on Iron as well. You can download the booklet from clicking the image above.

If you are encountering errors from the download, just let me know.

Anticipation

2009-06-16T01:10:00.003+08:00

I just remembered this picture from our wedding. People close to our hearts are waiting to greet us outside the church door.

DIY: Tumbler

2009-06-15T01:20:00.004+08:00

Due to insistent public demand (haha! as if!), I am posting a separate topic regarding the tumbler. Actually, it's just the tumbler template that they were asking but I guess it would also be a lot of help if I were to post how I created the tumbler souvenirs for Jack Jack's birthday party.

Pre-requisite: User must be knowledgeable in Adobe Photoshop.

1. Download the tumbler template here.

2. Edit the layout in Adobe Photoshop to make it appear as how you want it to.

3. Print the layout in Adobe Photoshop. Print the layout in black and white and in low resolution to save on ink. Don't be too excited!

4. Cut the layout and fit it in the tumbler.

5. If it fits, proceeds to the next step. If it doesn't, adjust the size and go back to Step #3.

Final Layout:

6. Print the layout on the desired paper. You may use photo paper, board or regular inkjet bond paper.

7. Cut all layouts.

8. Use double sided tapes to fix the layouts in the tumbler. You can opt not to use the double sided tapes and just simply fix the layouts in the tumbler but having a lose design just wouldn't make me sleep.

Final Product:

9. OPTIONAL: Put the tumbler in a package or wrap it. Since I was lazy, I used the box that came with the tumblers as the package. :P

If you are encountering problems with the download, let me know. This is my first DIY post so I hope you guys find it helpful. Ayt!

Another Layout and A Greeting

2009-06-14T15:55:00.003+08:00

My head hurts the other day after finishing this layout for my sister. I saw the sun rising before I was finally able to close my eyes. I'm so glad that Jack Jack didn't bother me much that morning. The next day was June 12 (Independence Day - a regular holiday in the Philippines) so I called the printing office to verify if they are open. I was lucky enough to talk to one of them saying that they're closed for today but that he can wait for me. I think I stayed there for a good 30 minutes and the tarpaulin was done! Pretty fast, isn't it!

Oh, the tarpaulin is actually for her birthday. So, happy birthday to my bestest sister! I'm so excited for her to see this...

I miss digiscrapping. It eats a lot of time so I don't do it anymore unless I really need to. Like in Jack Jack's birthday.

Just a quick question, why does my kid like hitting me with anything and pulling my hair?

Changeling

2009-06-13T15:25:00.004+08:00

No, I am not going to start doing reviews on movies (unless I'm going to be paid to do so). It's just that this particular movie is scary. And no, you will not find it in the Horror section. I haven't seen the movie as well. Let me just give you the synopsis below:

Inspired by actual events that occurred in 1920s-era Los Angeles, Clint Eastwood's "Changeling" tells the story of a woman driven to confront a corrupted LAPD after her abducted son is retrieved and she begins to suspect that the boy returned to her is not the same boy she gave birth to. The year was 1928, and the setting a working-class suburb of Los Angeles. As Christine (Angelina Jolie) said goodbye to her son, Walter, and departed for work, she never anticipated that this was the day her life would be forever changed. Upon returning home, Christine was distressed to discover that Walter was nowhere to be found. Over the course of the following months, the desperate mother would launch a search that would ultimately prove fruitless. Yet just when it seemed that all hope was lost, a nine-year-old boy claiming to be Christine's son seemed to appear out of thin air. Overcome with emotions and uncertain how to face the authorities or the press, Christine invites the child to stay in her home despite knowing without a doubt that he is not her son. As much as Christine would like to accept the fact that her son has been returned to her, she cannot accept the injustice being pushed upon her and continues to challenge the Prohibition-era Los Angeles police force at every turn. As a result, Christine is slandered by the powers that be, and painted as an unfit mother. In this town, a woman who challenges the system is putting her life on the line, and as the situation grows desperate, the only person willing to aid her in her search is benevolent local activist Reverend Briegleb (John Malkovich).

Even Angelina Jolie, a mother of 6 kids, says she became paranoid for her children because of the movie. If you are a mother, wouldn't you be scared as well?

Regular Poop

2009-06-12T15:31:00.001+08:00

Here's our new boss...

Actually, I would normally give Jack Jack a massage when he misses a scheduled poop. He would usually poop once or twice a day. I do not enjoy diaper changing like before but if he misses one, it isn't really a good sign. The massage would be on his stomach using my thumb in a clockwise direction.

Another way to encourage bowel movement for him is to exercise his legs. With Jack Jack lying on his back, I would raise his legs alternately - like he is riding a bicycle.

If none of these work, I would give him prune juice. I hate how this tastes that's why it is the last thing I try.

Recently, I do not have any problems with his BM except that he would usually wake me up in the morning sitting on my face with a funny smell. Guess what that means?

Medela Freestyle

2009-06-11T15:18:00.004+08:00

If I would name one thing in the world that I am most proud about, that would be my breastfeeding Jack Jack. It isn't easy at first but once you get the hang of it, it will be just like a walk in the park. It always gets better.

It will be much, much better though if I can get my hands on the best breastpump available. For me, it's the Freestyle. I love gadgets especially when it makes your life soooo easy. I haven't tried it (though I'd love to) so I couldn't give a hands-on review on it. Here's the most detailed hands-on review I found over the internet.

I keep on saying that I want this pump but it's just not feasible for my situation. Firstly, I work part-time at home and most of the time I'm a Mom. Since I spend most of my time at home, Jack Jack is usually available to nurse directly from me. I still pump at home when I need to store milk. I am currently using the Medela Swing Breastpump which is pretty much the best (for me) single electric breastpump. However, when I go out and I need to express milk, using a single breastpump takes too long to empty my breasts. Not to mention that I have to drag along 4 AA batteries for the pump - it's kind of heavy.

The pump, of course, costs a lot if you would compare it with other pumps. Thus, if I were to buy this pump, I'd need to save all of my earnings.

Or maybe I'd buy this in another life, perhaps. Darn...

Top 10 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Had Jack Jack

2009-06-10T15:06:00.002+08:00

During my pregnancy, I read anything and everything about pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, childcare and parenting. I am very thankful that I have been blessed to have access of the internet and came to know people from GirlTalk. Not only that I have real people to ask questions to but also ask support from and not just books that will dictate every information. With that said, I thought I knew everything. Now, that he's a year old, I've listed the top 10 things I wish I knew before I had Jack Jack:

10. That I will never be able to have a straight 12 hours of sleep. Remember my birthday wish last year? Well, I guess it's never going to happen now. This is even worst than having 4 presentations in one day back in college. Although this time, the reward is better than a 1.0 grade.

9. That it hurts to pee and it's scary to poop for the first time after a normal delivery. Need I say more?

8. How to burp a baby. Believe it or not, I'm still not sure whether I'm doing the right thing when it comes to burping. I am just thankful that that phase has been done and over with.

7. That you need to moisturize every part of your body that expands during pregnancy. I used Tummy Honey on my tummy to prevent the stretchies since it says tummy. But after giving birth, I had stretchies on my hips. And yes it's really true! Prevention is better than cure. Huhuhu!

6. That a double electric breastpump would be much better for me even if I'd be SAHM. I thought I wouldn't have any milk (the usual mistake especially that I am flat chested) so I initially bought the Playtex Manual pump. Then after giving birth, I ordered the Medela Swing Breastpump which is another mistake. I should have bought PISA. Freestyle wasn't out in the market yet. Sorry for talking giberish.

5. That I'd feel completely miserable if Jack Jack does not sleep beside me for one night. I was so glad when my Mom agreed that Jack Jack would sleepover their house. Later on, I wanted to change my mind but I can't. Leaving me and hubby feeling terrible having a completely quiet room that night.

4. That there is no such thing as a Super Mom. I can never be around Jack Jack 24/7. Yes, I spend most of my time in the house but I still need to take a bath, right?

3. The house will never be squeaky clean without help. I used to tell hubby that we do not need help since it's just us and I can definitely do housework but then read #4 above. Then the househelp left us when Jack Jack reached his third month. If it's difficult to take a bath, what housework can I do?

2. That going out wouldn't be a breeze. Before I gave birth, I can easily jump in the shower and go out. Now, I have to prepare Jack Jack as well. And it's not only bathing, his bag, which would be bigger than yours will need to be packed. As in packed completely. If you can leave the house without a comb, you cannot leave the house without a change of clothing, diapers, diaper cream, wipes, etc.

And lastly,

1. That there is another person on earth that would make you cry. I rarely cry. Maybe my eyes are dry but there are just so few instances that I cry. Sometimes even in funerals, I do not cry. But with Jack Jack, he just woke up the other night calling me (Mama) and my eyes are watery.

I'm pretty sure Mom's out there would have a thing or two to add. Feel free to let me know.

Another Walker

2009-06-09T15:48:00.004+08:00

This is another walker used by Jack Jack only this time he can't be lazy and sit around while walking. He sometimes stumbles on it but he enjoys pushing it around. He can also ride on it. He sure will learn to drive soon!

Notice how he can almost walk on his own.

Spammers

2009-06-08T15:34:00.004+08:00

Technically, I do not know what the exact word to call them without cursing. I have nothing against marketing but I think what they do here is just plain dirty. It is possibly a virus the send to people out there hidden in a link. They will send it through chat. You will probably receive it from one of your friends. Now, this link of course you will click, which is a big mistake. Because, without your knowledge, you will be sending the same message, with the same link to all of your contacts in your Yahoo Messenger, AOL or Windows Live Messenger. It is just annoying!

Anyways, my sister went online at almost 3 AM in the morning (No, don't ask me why I'm still up!) so I asked her why she is up (when she's already finished BOF - this is another story). Then she sent me a similar message with the link. I know at that instance that she might have clicked the link some time ago so I immediately changed her password. I'm not sure if that's going to help at all. I just got pissed by the incident.

After changing the password, I logged into her email account to look around if there are any damage done to it. It surprised me to see a different name in there that I thought I logged into the wrong account. I checked and saw the account is right but her Profile has been changed. Her name became Andrea Maddox, 20, from Norfolk, Virginia with the nick ShoppingFlower2k8. This is probably not his/her real name but it's just amazing what people would do to market their product or damage your computer - whatever their intention is.

Bulilit

2009-06-07T17:17:00.003+08:00

I don't know what it is with babies and TV commercials but it seems like they are designed in a way that it really captures attention. It's an ad, of course it will capture your attention!

Ever since his vision has cleared (i.e. he could follow a moving object with his eyes), it seems like he would drop anything that he is doing whenever commercials are played on TV. When the actual show would come up, he would continue whatever he's doing which is the exact opposite of what us adults do.

This particular commercial, not only captures his attention. It puts a smile on his face as well.

Baby Proofing

2009-06-06T15:17:00.002+08:00

Since it is summer, Jack Jack and I are spending most of our time inside the bedroom. We need the air conditioning to counter the heat. I'm telling you this kid sweats like crazy. He plays a little, he sweats. He nurses a little, he sweats. Aaargh... How come he didn't take it from me - I don't sweat much.

Anyways, since we're spending so much time in the room, most of his toys are there as well. It sometimes feels like a tornado just hit us that it's not only toys you would see scattered on the floor. I'd be happy to list it one by one but it would take me a day to list them all.

Jack Jack likes to crawl/walk around nonstop that we have placed carpets and rubber mats around the bed. We've also attached foams on the bed corners so it won't hurt as much should he accidentally bump his head. Technically, the room's not yet 100% baby proof. We still need to do something about the plug, the air conditioning unit, wires and cabinet doors.

I'm liking the items from this site. I just hope I could find them here cheaper. A little bit of foam, duct tape and staples does the job (but you have to sacrifice how it looks like) but for some it really needs to be designed for child proofing purposes.

Currently, I'm waiting for the malls to go on sale. Here are two items on my wishlist:

There are still other stuff I need to baby proof like the trash can, electrical wires and the drawer cabinet (this might fall on him if he climbs on it) but I don't know how to (without buying childproofing stuff). I can't possibly have my 100% attention on him 24/7. Can somebody please tell me how?

Wondermom

2009-06-05T15:25:00.003+08:00

Here's a segment in Wondermom - airs every Saturday 9:45 AM. It's my Belly Dancing instructor and her kid.

This was aired sometime last February but I never got the time to upload the video. I was in one of the shots so watch out for me and don't blink! Haha!

Biscuits

2009-06-04T15:03:00.001+08:00

Jack Jack on Car Seat

2009-06-03T15:16:00.003+08:00

I've been meaning to post this since 2 or 3 months ago that we changed his car seat. This is another car seat MIL sent for Jack Jack. He doesn't fit on the other one anymore as he is growing up so fast.

Jack Jack can sometimes sleep on his own while sitting on his chair. Unlike before, he sits at the back of the car now because he'd be blocking the right side mirror should he sit in front.

Bellyfest 2009

2009-06-02T15:45:00.004+08:00

Despite the rain, the Bellyfest 2009 pushed through last Sunday. After all, the show must go on. No, I didn't join the recital. Not only do I not have enough money for it, I do not have enough time as well. It would require at least 2 hours of rehearsal every week which is just not possible.

Anyways, I'm happy to say that this year, I was able to watch the show. Unlike the last two years (2007 and 2008) of which I couldn't go.

We both enjoyed the show. Not to mention some of the steps were taught during the class so my Mom and I knew some of them.

Here's me and Jack Jack.

Here's my Mom and Jack Jack.

Check out my glitter tat!

A shot of Jack Jack wearing pants.

Jai Ho!

My Reward

2009-06-01T15:02:00.008+08:00

Since it is my birthday today, I want to share with you my reward. You see, I didn't wish for anything for myself lately and I feel quite lucky to be blessed. With this, nothing can hurt me, ever.

Jack Jack's First Birthday - Part 2

2009-05-29T15:09:00.010+08:00

We were hesitant at first to have a celebration for Jack Jack's birthday. I was thinking something like just a small dinner for family and close friends but this is his first birthday. It has to be a bit big. We decided it would be just an adult affair because I'm not sure how I would be able to handle kids without a party planner. However, we changed our minds later on and added a few games. I am aware we change minds a lot!

Now, that we're past the worst blunder in history, I can now move on to my great suppliers. Well, those idiots make ok look great. Ha!

Customized Cake: Icings n' Sprinkles (formerly Cake Craft) by Miss Ana Baluyut

Miss Ana's nice. Not super-feeling-close-nice, but nice enough business wise. I was eyeing Miss Emily Uy's cake but she's not available for my event na.

Ana said the cake would last for about 4 days. I didn't get to taste or even the touch the cake up until the 4th day without refrigerating so I'm not sure if the cake is supposed to be bitter already. Not bad for it's price. Cravings already has a cake included with the ammenities but I want a themed cake. I'm happy of how it looked like.

Photographer: My Focal Point

Chris is my favorite supplier. I got a good deal from their promo and on top of that, I was able to refer a friend which entitles both of us for another promo. The venue provided a screen for the projector but I wasn't sure if I would be able to create the AVP on top of all the DIY projects I am planning. When I booked My Focal Point as my photographer, I was so happy to find out that the package includes AVP!

Projector: Tita Ninang Doc Au

One of our Principal Sponsors during our wedding. She also partly co-hosted the event. Thanks for lending us your projector. Muah!

Host: Tita Ninang Doctin

She's got to be my bestest sister of all. She's also Jack Jack's sponsor during his baptism last year. Like I said above, we just wanted a simple celebration. Even if it's just food that we offer to our guests, we'd be happy with it. Since this is a kiddie party, we couldn't help but have games for everybody. I told her to just explain the balloon burst game and that would be it. But then, they wanted to add more games and that just stuck her on the stage. To the best sis, thanks so much!

Jack Jack's Costume:

I was almost going to give up looking if I won't be able to find someone to make it for him. Actually, I found them but it's too pricey. This costume is like a needle in a haystack. It took me a while before I found it. It also includes a mask but then I wish you luck that it is going to stay on Jack Jack for even 5 seconds.

It was a bit big when I got it so my Mom just altered the size - just like what she does to some of the clothes from MIL that needs alteration.

Balloon Burst: Harlequin Party Specialists

I planned on including this and the pinata as another DIY project. But it became way out of my capabilities. Not to mention out of time so I contacted a balloon supplier within Quezon City to do both for me 5 days before the event. I wanted to have one supplier for both to minimize work. We have agreed on the price over the phone and he kept on saying he would be able to get an Incredibles pinata (I agreed on his overpriced balloon burst and pinata rent because I know that I'm out of time). Everyday, I kept on checking on him and he kept on saying he'd call me the next day. 2 days before the event, he said he can't find an Incredibles pinata. He can only give me.... guess what? .... Batman! Huwaaat?!! I know that I ordered really late but because he kept on leading me, I lost more time pa.

Rochelle from GirlTalk recommended Cherrie but she's not available for my event anymore. I felt bad because her balloon burst is the cheapest I've heard. Two days to go and I'm panicking, of course.

I was lucky to find Harlequin through ClickTheCity.com. They gave me a good enough deal for the Balloon Burst for 3 feet and 60 balloons inside. It's their smallest balloon, by the way.

Pinata: Dominic's Balloon Design Plus

Here's another supplier I found from ClickTheCity.com. I was hoping that I would get the same supplier for this and the balloon burst but given my time limit, I couldn't find another supplier. I wasn't expecting on finding an Incredibles themed pinata anymore and I am just hoping I'd find something that's plain red or black then I'd try to glue an Incredibles image or just let it be plain. So imagine how I almost fell from my seat when these guys told me that they have a Mr. Incredibles pinata! I picked it up the same day so I could fill it with the prizes.

SIL helped me fill it with the prizes along with the shredded papers I did the day before. The papers I used were from brochures and old glossy magazines. I think it would have been better if I used the japanese paper because it was lighter in weight. The funny thing is that there was too much prizes in it that it got stuck when we pulled the string. The prizes didn't fall right away. It was only after a little bit of poking and shaking the thing that made it give away.

Stage Backdrop:

Here's how the tarpaulin looked like on stage.

Standee:

The tarpaulin stand I got from National Bookstore. It took me a while before I was able to find this stand. Maybe their SA's doesn't care if the will make a sale or not. They kept on pointing who is responsible for the tarpaulin stand and saying that "maybe" they don't have it in stock without me seeing anybody looking for it from their racks (which is unruly) or computers. So I asked them why they are saying it's out of stock when no one's looking for it? Does everyone of them know the exact quantity of their item on hand? My bitching paid off because one of them started to look for the tarpaulin stand. :P

Table Decor:

Activities: DIY

Another project that I did. I just downloaded them from the internet and printed them. Bought sets of crayola. The table centerpiece I made also because activities for both adults and kids.

Eye Masks:

I planned on giving out black masks to kids at the start of my party planning. I scratched it off later on because I couldn't find them (or maybe I didn't look hard enough). I found these at the last minute of the preps only that it is colored red instead of black.

Prizes:

From the pinata

Too bad I wasn't able to take pictures of all the prizes. I even have an early bird prize na DVD. Also, hindi nagsetup ng prize table, lootbag and souvenir table yung venue as agreed.

Images are from My Focal Point.

First Steps

2009-05-28T15:25:00.000+08:00

He's still a bit wobbly and you can feel he's scared when you don't hold his hand but he sure does want to walk!

Craving for a Rant

2009-05-27T14:24:00.008+08:00

For more than a week now, I have been waiting for a response from them. Just a response or acknowledgement. Nothing. Nada. I feel voiceless. So I guess I'll need to bring it to the next level. Not only to express my feelings but also to somehow serve as a lesson to others.

Last Tuesday, May 19, I sent the following letter via email to the Cravings Group (The Guerrero's are the owners from my research so I have put their names in the subject of the email as well.):

To: Miss Susana Guerrero & Miss Badgie Guerrero

I am writing this letter to express my disappointment with a recent event held at one of your Cravings Restaurant branches. The Tomas Morato branch, specifically. The incident(s) happened last Sunday, May 17, 2009.

I have chosen this venue since it is the most accessible to most of my friends and relatives. Also, that my recent job usually hosts functions in your Shangri-La Mall branch. Based on that, I have made my decision besides all the other restaurants available in Tomas Morato with good reviews from my Female Network online buddies. The branch did not offer a food tasting or any freebies aside from what is included in their amenities. With the P570/pax price, I thought the food must be of quality and quantity!

I have been in constant communication with Mr. RJ Villasenor regarding the details of the party until the day of the event. I have booked 50 persons from the P570/pax Set 1 menu after changing the pasta to be spaghetti as Mr. RJ said that the kids would prefer it so I agreed to it. Mr. RJ also mentioned that I can add 15 extra kids into the guest list instead of getting the kiddie buffet. This is a kiddie party for my son, by the way. I paid in full for 50 persons 2 days before the event even if I was able to confirm only 46 guests because I do not want to run out of food. Food has always been my number 1 PRIORITY in any event.

Each time we would discuss the details, he would always ask me if I would like to have his crew to stand by the buffet to make portions. I do not like this setup since I know that caterers only do this if the food is not enough.

When I walked into the venue, I was at first happy that the place looked nice and party ready. However, I noticed that Mr. RJ has setup only 35 adult (5 tables for 7 persons) and 16 kiddie seats (4 mini tables with 4 mini chairs). I talked to him regarding this and he said that we have agreed that the kids are included in the 50 persons. Why would I pay for 15 pax of food for kids? Then he added another table -- for 4 persons!

The table for four. Thanks, huh!

When guests arrive, we had to seat them in tables that has already been occupied. We have to ask for table utensils, water and ice tea from their disappearing waiters you have to look for outside of their function room. This goes the same if you would need to ask for a water refill.

Later into the party, we asked them to refill the buffet since it is already empty - do we really have to ask? They refilled the buffet using 1 plate per dish - not another chaffing dish as I was expecting more food from them. Of course, this refill run out sooner than the food served before so we asked Mr. RJ for more food but he said that all the food has been served. He kept on insisting that the 50 guests has been accommodated and even challenged us for a headcount. So we did, but he was nowhere to be found. Please note that there was only 45 adults, 5 kids and 3 infants. Ok, let’s say the kids are also paid as adults – so, where’s the buffer? And these are kids ranging from 3-9 years old who eats by how much? We were lucky that some of the guests did not make it to the party. Otherwise, we wouldn’t know what to feed them.

When the party ended, we asked for the leftover food to be packed. The only food left was rice, a bit of the dory fish, veggies, salad, and the awfully sour spaghetti. However, the crew chose to clean up instead of packing the food first. When they finally came around to packing, they kept on insisting that they have no styros for the food anymore. I was able to count only 6 or 10 of them. He kept on telling my mom to leave the salad because he said it will only wither (are they planning on reusing this? We paid for it, right?). Anyways, my mom insisted to take the salad even if they would put it in a clean plastic.

And finally, we left the place without apologies or even thank yous from the crew members. Mr. RJ was nowhere to be found still. I didn't look for him anymore as he seems unaccommodating right after I paid the full package price. Neither do I have the strength to argue after all the preparations I did for this event.

I’m not expecting much from this as the event has already been finished. I just hope it doesn’t happen to other people. I was wondering why I never found a review of Cravings when I started preparing for my son’s birthday, I guess I got the answer now.

Thank you for reading my letter besides it’s length. Somehow, my disappointment has lessened a bit from this.

Sincerely,
Tiggerlily

I am taking back the last sentence I wrote. Their non-acknowledgement shows exactly their own definition of customer service.

Another reason I chose them is because they have this Children's Party Package that includes the following:

-Gift for the Celebrant (which we never received)
-Kiddie Invitations (I asked them for this after confirmation of the event but never used it. My invites are far more decent.)
-Party Hats (non-existent as well)
-Name Tags (where?)
-Birthday Banner (Again, I didn't avail of this)
-Kiddie Tables and Chairs
-Colorful Hanging Ballon Decor (I could have saved more if I hired another vendor and chose another venue, you know.)
-Balloon Centerpiece for Adults Table
-Balloon Centerpiece for the Buffet
-One-round chilled juice for kids
-One-round Iced Tea for adults
-Separate dessert bar (somehow, I am wondering where they placed this)
-Two-layered fondant cake (which they said they baked but I doubt it. The box says it is ordered somewhere.)
-6 pcs. baby cakes

** I guess you have to ask for every little thing to get it.

The rent of the function room is free which includes the sound system and screen only for the LCD Projector to which I am very grateful for.

The cake and the baby cakes.

Because I knew I wouldn't have enough time, I wanted to be able to avail of these amenities. Should I run out of time to prepare, I will always have a fallback. Little did I know that what I needed a fallback from is THEM!

The food is so-so. Some of it were good and others are just hideous. I was also wondering where these little cakes has gone because I remembered having leftovers of these after the party but we never got it.

Here are more pictures from their setup just to show how simple it is:

The balloon burst and pinata are from a different vendor.

Buffet table

Adult's table

Kid's table

Please note that the alphabet blocks are my labor of love. I added it to the tables to make them more festive.

Below naman are their food from each chaffing dish. This is their first serving, the refill was from one plate. Then the last refill was only for rice and salad. So imagine how much they are serving for 50 persons. Notice how the chaffing dishes aren't even full from the first serving.

I was never a whiner. I do not usually complain. Sometimes it is bad to be too nice for your own good because people tend to abuse you. Apparently, they have reached the end of my rope. Thus, explaining this rant.

I think their name "Cravings" really speaks out for itself - because you won't have enough food on your plate.

Okay, now I can move on.

Images are from My Focal Point.

UPDATE last June 14, 2009:

I received an email message from Cravings (cravings.tomasmorato@yahoo.com) for their Dad's Day Out at Cravings promo. Ha! So, I answered with the following:

Please remove my email address from your email blasts as I am not interested with any of your products. I sent you an email regarding my disappointment with your services and I haven't received any feedback from you until now.

Once again, no response.

Hello and Goodbye

2009-05-26T15:27:00.008+08:00

You wouldn't believe what just happened yesterday. My mom received a letter for me. When I opened it, it says that I won a cellphone!!! Woohoo! I am never lucky with raffles so just imagine my surprise when I read the letter. My mom already told me that I could have won something because why else would I get a letter from a grocery store?

I used to think that filling up raffle entry coupons are scams but I fill them up anyways for the heck of it. Why a scam? Well, I just happen to notice that everytime I drop my coupons for any raffle, I would later (within a week's span) receive a call that I won something. Then they would ask you to come to their office to claim the "prize" after going through a 2-3 hours of seminar from them asking you to buy something. Anyways, you'd still get the "prize" even if you don't buy but I just think that their way of getting your attention is dirty and it's a waste of time.

So there. I got my new phone. I took a picture of it for sentimental reasons. Now, it's for sale even though I am so tempted to keep it because of it's slick appearance and sliding capability. It's brand new, with Nokia warranty, handsfree headset, battery, charger and user manual. Anyone interested? Give me a shout!

UPDATE (May 28, 2009): This phone has been sold. Easy come, easy go!

Sweet Dreams

2009-05-25T15:58:00.002+08:00

For quite some time, I have been trying very hard to capture Jack Jack smile or laugh on his sleep. He does this occassionally but when I am so ready with my camera, he wouldn't smile. This time I was able to capture him smile although he has been laughing before that.

I could stay awake just to hear you breathing
Watch you smile while you are sleeping
While youre far away and dreaming

Oooohh!!!

2009-05-24T17:37:00.000+08:00

New Bangles

2009-05-23T17:44:00.003+08:00

Since I had Jack Jack, I have been very careful with anything that I put on. Whether it be clothes, shoes, bags or accessories. Everything must be baby-proofed. It should be safe for Jack Jack, easy to maintain and comfortable. I gave up blouses with beads, dangling earings, watch and high-heeled shoes (made my sister VERY happy).

I bought these round steel earings for his Baptism last year. It is safe for him but not for me! He wasn't at the pulling stage at that time so it's fine. But right now, he pulls anything shiny and bold.

Bangles seem to be a hit at the moment but they are too big for my small arms. It's supposedly safe for Jack Jack since it isn't catchy and is too big for him to swallow (should he decide to play with it). Then I found this bangle set which is perfect for us. Jack Jack likes to play with it, too. If you could only see how he laughs at times when it makes it's sound. Only that it's a bit noisy everytime I move. It's not catchy, not sharp, big enough to not be swallowed and looks really good on my arms! Perfect! Oh well, almost.

Look at that beauty...

Anyways, days later, I saw it over at Look for Less.

Nice, eh? It isn't the exact same thing. Mine has different carvings on it while the other is uniformed. I just love wearing it!

UPDATE (June 2, 2009): I saw Agot Isidro wearing the same bangles at Tayong Dalawa.

Jack Jack's First Birthday - Part 1

2009-05-22T17:46:00.006+08:00

Last week, my little Jack Jack turned one. Along with this, I have decided to call him Jack Jack online from now on. Apparently, for his privacy and safety purposes.

Like it or not, I'm back. I haven't been posting for a long time because of the preparations I did for his birthday. His real birthday's May 15 but it was celebrated on the 17th. I'm still waiting for the pictures from the official photographer - yes, I hired one because the pictures would last a lifetime and I'm pretty sure I wouldn't do as good a job as his because I'd be busy the whole time.

For now, I'll post pictures of what I DIYed for the party. I created all the layouts from downloaded images from the internet using Adobe Photoshop CS2.

Invites

I had the invite layout printed in 4x6 matte finish for Php7 each. I bought magnetic sheets from the local bookstore so guests can stick it on their fridge. Glue them together after cutting to size. I also printed the maps on colored papers unused from our wedding. The envelopes were from my Mom so it's free.

Personalized Tumbler Souvenirs

Again, I did the layout from Adobe Photoshop CS2. Then I printed the images on A4 size bond papers. The tumblers I bought from another supplier. I used double sided tape to affix the images in the tumbler.

Stage Backdrop

Standee

Both the Stage Backdrop and Standee was printed on tarpaulin. I was lucky to find this vendor along Aurora Boulevard that charges only Php17/square foot for rush tarpaulin printing 4 days before the event. I thought I needed to go to Recto to get the same price. I was also able to find tarpaulin stand from National Bookstore for Php188. Whew! Most of the stands costed Php700++!

Table Centerpiece

This idea came from a fellow GirlTalker mommy_vicky. They are just your regular rubber mat only that they are uber small that you can practically build toy blocks out of it. Thanks sis!

Lootbags

Once again, I got lucky that I found these small Incredibles backpacks. Otherwise, I would have to make do with Incredibles paper bags. Contents would differ according to age and gender.

Baby Lootbag contents:

Older kids Lootbag contents:

These contents can either be for a boy or girl. The only difference with the other contents is that it has Disney Cars instead of Winnie the Pooh. I wasn't able to capture an image of that.

Coloring Pages

I also printed coloring pages of the Incredibles downloaded from different sites. Then I provided crayolas to be place on the kid's tables. It was supposed to be coloring books for the kids but I didn't have enough time to have them binded.

Once I get the complete pictures from the photographer, I'll post Part 2. Whew! I'm so glad that it's done! I can now breathe!

More Bubble Bath

2009-03-01T20:53:00.002+08:00

Summer is officially here. Longer baths seems to be appropriate. Jack Jack seems to love the water. I guess I have made my point already. We want to go to the beach!!!

Stop splashing already! This camera does not have a water gear!

The Sleepover

2009-02-28T20:07:00.002+08:00

The thought of sleeping without Jack Jack with me seems to be refreshing. I have been wishing for a very long uninterrupted sleep. Then I just decided to just do it. I asked my Mom to have Jack Jack sleepover. I was so excited at first but when it was time to leave him behind sadness struck us (including hubby).

It is pretty weird but now I kind of understand what the big deal is when friends or former colleagues would tell me that they miss their babies or kids. Why they are so in a hurry to go home. See, I don't usually leave my baby behind. He's always with me.

That night, I did not get the good sleep I planned. Instead, I had to pump in the middle of the night because of engorgement and to help maintain my milk supply.

It was just for one night but I feel like I have been away from him longer than that. The next day, I was so giddy to get to my Mom's place to see Jack Jack again. He seems to miss me too as we nursed the minute we met.

Looks like I wouldn't be wishing for a long sleep anymore and embrace the sleep deprived life.

Jack Jack's Bubble Bath

2009-02-27T11:02:00.002+08:00

He seems to like the water. He wouldn't stop splashing it - all over me...

Baby Mop

2009-02-26T20:47:00.002+08:00

Baby Mop from Chris Milk on Vimeo
I think housework could be a lot easier with this.

Fat Lip

2009-02-25T18:03:00.002+08:00

I thought I have the mastered the art of ducking my head when Jack Jack's head is about to hit me. Or so I thought. It seems to be a normal sight when I look at the mirror with a fat lip. I still feel lucky that it isn't a blackeye or a broken nose.

Speaking of a broken nose, I thought I had that too the other morning. I opened my eyes to find out that it is too late to move and BANG! Jack Jack's head just landed on my nose. I felt a bit of nausea and raised my hand to feel my nose. It isn't broken. I guess for a nose that doesn't have much of a bone it would take much more force for it be damaged.

I hope no more damages would come in the future. Having a boy really is a lot of ~~trouble~~ fun.

Really Standin' Up

2009-02-22T17:09:00.001+08:00

Just Couldn't Make It

2009-02-21T20:49:00.003+08:00

Remember when I said Jack Jack always crawls to me for nursing? Here he is on one of those moments. The thing is that he was too sleepy to crawl that he wasn't able to make it to me.

Fifth Teeth

2009-02-20T19:07:00.006+08:00

Sometime last month, his fifth teeth has erupted. Now, there's 5 more challenges during nursing time!

Month 9

2009-02-15T11:56:00.013+08:00

Weight: 8 kg.
Height:
Food: Breastmilk, carrots (his favorite), sweet potatoes, potatoes, apple grape juice, squash and avocadoes (another favorite).

* Plays catch me if you can on the bed. He's not running yet, he's just crawling.

* Drinks from his sippy cup.

* He can easily pull himself up when leaning on something.

* Plays peek-a-boo!

* He can sit on the floor from standing.

* Walks when holding on to something.

* Fifth teeth has erupted.

Breastfeeding and Laziness

2009-02-10T09:26:00.006+08:00

Yes, I am lazy. If you haven't noticed, I am just creating systems to make shortcuts. This is just one of the million reasons I'm breastfeeding. I don't fancy cleaning and sterilizing bottles. Having Jack Jack latched on my breast is the easiest way to feed him. I'd pretty much do this for as long as I could.

Did I mention that I'm also delaying solids? I started giving Jack Jack solids around 7 or 8 months, I think. If I could, I would have started it when he reaches his first year. Introducing solids would actually increase the chances that he would wean earlier so I'm doing it very slowly. Breastmilk or formula should still be the first nutrition baby gets up to his first year and giving solids earlier doesn't really have any benefits.

So there.. I am lazy.

Image is of Jack Jack and me while nursing.

I Think I Forgot Something...

2009-02-08T19:28:00.001+08:00

Hoyt!

2009-02-07T16:50:00.003+08:00

Avocado Craze

2009-02-06T20:40:00.002+08:00

This is how much Jack Jack loves avocadoes!

Have Baby Smile In Pictures!

2009-02-05T18:49:00.006+08:00

Do you know how ~~annoying~~ frustrating it is to take a picture with the baby and he's not smiling? Well, I've recently just figured it out. I'll share the secret.

First, decide where baby should be when the shot is taken. The person who is carrying the baby would be the one who will count 1 to 3 where 3 is where the shot is taken.

Here's the fun part. Swing the baby while counting 1 to 2.

Once you reach 3, the baby's position should be his final position. Make sure the person taking the picture knows about this though.

The Smell

2009-02-04T16:15:00.001+08:00

I love the smell of Jack Jack's breath, armpits, nape, hair, feet and poop (when he just had carrots). Am I weird?

Bye Bye

2009-02-03T10:45:00.001+08:00

** Dedicated to everyone who's missing someone...

This is for my people who just lost somebody
Your best friend, your baby, your man, or your lady
Put your hand way up high
We will never say bye (no, no, no)
Mamas, daddies, sisters, brothers, friends and cousins
This is for my people who lost their grandmothers
Lift your head to the sky 'cause we will never say bye

As a child there were them times
I didn't get it but you kept me in line
I didn't know why you didn't show up sometimes
On Sunday mornings, and I missed you
But I'm glad we talked through
All them grown folk things
Separation brings
You never let me know it
You never let it show because
You loved me and obviously
There's so much more left to say
If you were with me today face to face

[Chorus:]
I never knew I could hurt like this
And everyday life goes on like
"I wish I could talk to you for awhile"
Miss you but I try not to cry
As time goes by
And it's true that you've reached a better place
Still I'd give the world to see your face
And I'm right here next to you
But it's like you're gone too soon
Now the hardest thing to do is say bye bye

(Bye Bye [3x])
Bye bye

And you never got the chance to see how good I've done
And you never got to see me back at number one
I wish that you were here to celebrate together
I wish that we could spend the holidays together

I remember when you used to tuck me in at night
With the Teddy Bear you gave to me that I held so tight
I thought you were so strong
You'd make it through whatever
It's so hard to accept the fact you're gone forever

[Chorus]

(bye bye bye bye bye bye [3x])
Bye bye

This is for my people who just lost somebody
Your best friend, your baby, your man, or your lady
Put your hand way up high
We will never say bye (no, no, no)
Mamas, daddies, sisters, brothers, friends and cousins
This is for my people who lost their grandmothers
Lift your head to the sky 'cause we will never say bye

[Chorus]

What Superheroine Are You?

2009-02-02T17:48:00.000+08:00

You Are Trinity

"Touch me and that hand will never touch anything again."

What Superheroine Are You?

Vote for Julian!

2009-02-01T11:30:00.003+08:00

Please vote by rating and if you can, leave a comment for my baby Jack Jack here.

Thanks so much!

Standin' Up

2009-01-31T11:36:00.002+08:00

From Jack Jack's 8th Month milestones, I mentioned he can stay in the standing position. I've recently captured this images.

Another Look-A-Like Meter

2009-01-30T11:46:00.003+08:00

MyHeritage: Family trees - Genealogy - Celebrities - Collage - Morph

The other meter is here. Looks like Jack Jack's starting to look like me! Tee-hee!

The images were taken when we recently went to Tagaytay.

This Is How I Sleep

2009-01-29T18:42:00.001+08:00

Everyday, Jack Jack grows to look more like hubby and not me. I'm not sad at all by that and am actually quite amused that he sleeps like me.

5 Benefits Of Mother's Milk

2009-01-28T18:38:00.000+08:00

A young medical student is given his final examination on human reproduction.

After reading Question 1; "Give five reasons why a mother's milk is better than a cows milk for a newborn baby?"; he recalled four and quickly wrote them down in his exam book.

1. A mother's milk is more nutritious; it contains better balance of fats, carbohydrates and proteins for the newborn;

2. A mothers milk contains a mix of vitamins that more closely aligns to a human baby's needs.

3. A mothers milk contains immunological agents that will help the newborn fight bacteria, viruses and other infections.

4. Breast feeding is more nurturing and better developmentally for the child. Stumped, frustrated and running out of time, he searched his mind for a fifth reason. After pondering the question for an agonizing five minutes, he quickly scribbled a fifth response:

5. The milk is delivered in a warm and "really cute" cup.

He got an "A" on the exam.

"ME" Time

2009-01-27T17:32:00.003+08:00

When I started this blog, I thought it would be just about me. If you come to think of it, it seems like it became Jack Jack's blog. Not! Maybe it appears to be that way because my life revolves around him now. That doesn't mean I don't have time for myself anymore.

Actually, when Jack Jack reached his third month, I went back to belly dancing. It wasn't only to get back to my pre-pregnancy figure (yeah, stick figure!) but also to take time-out from Jack Jack. Not that I don't want to be with him but I'm just avoiding being burned-out from housework and sitting Jack Jack.

Then, there's my nails. I like to see them always clean and polished. I can do that on my own but time wouldn't be enough and being at home means this activity would just be pushed back until it never gets done. So, I go out and pay a professional to do it for me.

Last are my hot shower baths. I try (because sometimes it's just impossible) to do this everyday and if I'd be lucky enough (when someone can keep an eye on Jack Jack), I can have it longer than 10 minutes.

So there... my quality ME time. What's yours?

Pa-pa-pa!

2009-01-26T14:49:00.001+08:00

Did You Know?!

2009-01-25T11:53:00.001+08:00

1.Human milk has over 300 ingredients, including interferon, white blood cells, antibacterial and antiviral agents, while formula has only 40 ingredients.

2.Human milk has been shown to kill cancer cells in a laboratory dish and has been used in oncology.

3. The human breast "custom-makes" antibodies to fight whatever pathogen the infant is exposed to in the environment.

4. Breast milk has been used to treat eye infections, ear infections, pimples, cold sores, and nail fungus and prevent infection in scrapes and scratches.

5. In some parts of the world, donated organs are bathed in breast milk for the protective factors.

6. There were 22 "significant" recalls of formula for potentially life-threatening situations.

7. Human milk lactoferrin is patented for use in killing E. Coli in the meat packing industry.

8. Donor milk is being used to treat malabsorption and short-gut syndromes, renal failure, inborn errors of metabolism, ulcerative colitis, irritable bowel syndrome, immunodeficiency diseases, burn cases, cardiac problems, and infectious diseases such as intractable diarrhea, gastroenteritis, infantile botulism, sepsis, pneumonia, and hemorrhagic conjuctivitis in both children and adults.

9. Adoptive moms, grandmothers, and yes, even men (!) have been able to lactate for an infant.

Referenced from here.

COF Reunion

2009-01-24T17:14:00.000+08:00

One of my college friends came back here in Manila for a vacation. As expected, our group has arranged for a meet up. I miss college days...

Driving Lessons

2009-01-23T11:53:00.001+08:00

Eating Habits

2009-01-22T11:37:00.002+08:00

Jack Jack's first food is still breastmilk. On top of that, he's learning to eat solid foods (banana, potato, carrots and sweet potato). I give him water after that. At, 8 kg., he's growing up really fast! He can even pass as a 1 year old with his size!

Nursing Confusion

2009-01-21T11:21:00.002+08:00

Currently, I have 6 nursing bras and I wish to add more to that since I use it on a daily basis. However, I wanted something cheaper than the usual nursing bras you see in malls so I went to Greenhills for a search (a little bird told me there's a seller somewhere here).

I found two sellers. The first one didn't have my size - only the itsy bitsy size for me. The smallest they have is 36. The second one, I found from the thousands, I think, scattered tiange's outside and after a massive search (yeah, there's plenty of them brassiere sellers), I got my size. I bought three for P150 each!

Anyways, there's really this funny thing that happened there:

SA: (while searching for my size) Nursing student ka ba? (Are you a nursing student?)

Me: (Whaaa??!) Ay, hindi. (No.)

Maybe there is a connection between the nursing course and breastfeeding. Or maybe I seem to look like a student. What do you think?

Laugh Out Loud 7

2009-01-17T16:53:00.004+08:00

Laughs at his own laugh!

Look At Jack Jack's Teeth!

2009-01-16T16:28:00.003+08:00

Here's Jack Jack who's so proud of his teeth! Now, nursing has been a little bit more of a challenge because there are times when he's half asleep that he would bite and that I couldn't do anything because he isn't aware of that. If he's awake, I could talk to him and hopefully he would understand. But really, ouch!

Month 8

2009-01-15T21:53:00.007+08:00

Height: 70 cm.
Weight: 8 kg.
Food: Breastmilk, potatoes, carrots, bananas and grapes.

* He just erupted his first two lower front teeth and two upper front teeth.

* He said "P-pa-pa-pa!"

* Sits up from reaching a toy.

* I can now carry him without supporting his back but he's still leaning on me for support.

* He can stand up from a sitting position using his hands but still needs assistance.

* I didn't notice until now - he can burp on his own.

* Once he said, "Baby!" upon seeing hi cousin Janine.

* Talks loudly when everyone else is talking.

* Crawls to Mama for nursing.

* Drinks from his sippy cup.

* He can stay in the standing position while using his hands for support. His palms get sweaty from doing this. Nervous perhaps?

Laugh Out Loud 6

2009-01-12T18:12:00.001+08:00

Be Careful

2009-01-09T14:15:00.005+08:00

Be careful when you leave your fingers unattended in front of Jack Jack. He might pick it up and put it in his mouth. Then he'll smack his mouth shut and I'm pretty sure you'll hate yourself for neglecting this warning.

Oh, did I mention that his upper and lower two front teeth have erupted?

Yeah, ouch!

Another Sleeping Position

2009-01-07T16:13:00.002+08:00

Too Big

2009-01-06T12:42:00.004+08:00

Happy New Year!

Jack Jack's Scrapblog

2008-12-24T17:38:00.004+08:00

I forgot to post this. I haven't been able to digiscrap Jack Jack's pictures because it consumes too much time so here's a shortcut I found.

Sampung Mga Daliri

2008-12-22T11:57:00.005+08:00

Sampung mga daliri

Kamay at paa

Dalawang tenga, dalawang mata

Ilong na maganda!

First Two Front Teeth!

2008-12-18T16:57:00.004+08:00

- December 17, 2008

I'm sorry for the quality of the image but this is the clearest I could snap. Both teeth hasn't completely erupted yet, but I'd show you more pictures once they do.

I was dreading the day that Jack Jack's tooth would erupt. I was scared he would bite during nursing but I'm over thinking about that possibility. I now have mustered enough courage to say, "No biting, Jack Jack," if he would bite and stop nursing for a moment (of course, I don't call him Jack Jack in real life, duh!). This should teach him not to bite - I hope.

Month 7

2008-12-15T22:52:00.014+08:00

Height: 65 centimeters
Weight: 7.2 kilograms

* He is now starting to learn to walk. He walks backwards.

* As far as I know, he has just started taking solids (mashed potatoes). Unless, somebody else has given him solids without my knowledge. However, it appears to me that he's not yet ready to take solids.

* He can easily pull himself up. Hold his hands while he is lying down and he will pull himself up.

* He responds to his name when called.

* He sometimes sleeps on his own when he is placed in his crib.

* Super talkative. When everybody else is talking, he wants to talk also.

* Holds his feeder up while eating. Slams it on the table when he's done.

* Holds his head up during nursing - like he is sitting up but not for long.

* He can now sit up but just for a moment.

* He once looked at Portia when her name was mentioned.

Guys, Let's Pose!!!

2008-12-08T21:42:00.001+08:00